Many of us experience some changes around the age of 50. I’m not talking about any kind of midlife crisis or menopause for women, while this might also be a trigger to rethink where we are in life. No matter the reason, it seems to be the time to reinvent oneself.
A friend of mine, who turns 50 this year, takes this as an option to rethink
what he wants his life to be and he takes the necessary changes. Those changes can
be quite big things; it might even come to a real turn over.
I heard from another friend who had a rigorous 6 days a week Ashtanga
practice, that with her menopause starting, she allowed herself to be less strict
and her yoga practice turned to be more calm, slow and gentle, always listening
to what her body needs that day.
This time might be an entry point into a new phase of life, with new options, new strength, and the courage to change and eventually start something new. It might concern the job, the place we live, relationships, our practice or the entire life set-up; no matter what direction we’re aiming to go, if you feel called, do it. Even if aging shows us at this stage the first indications that not only the outer appearance is transforming, but also the body complains more. And hey, where is that fear coming from all of a sudden?
Many yogis start taking it easier at that point, while for me the full story started then. At the age of 49 I did my first teacher training and instead of getting calmer, my yoga journey took off and was at its best around 52. I’m 54 now and my body talks to me loud and clear, mostly not what I want to hear and I learned that it’s not always about doing the full Ashtanga series each day, it’s about showing up. Being on the mat every day, doing what I can. Luckily, my body is still improving, still learning, adapting, bending more, even if progress takes much longer. My practice teaches me to be patient, the most difficult thing to learn for me! To accept, that it’s totally fine where I am on my journey and not just that, it is phenomenal how my body and mind changed over the past few years.
We move on, the three of us, together, body and mind and soul. We keep
on changing, improving, learning and the very new thing: we take it easy.